Sunday, March 05, 2006

Life

I am always worried about weird thoughts which travels through my mind. I have always been mesmerized for trying something new and today's weird thought is starting to write blogs.

Even though i am not very sure about what to start with and where to end lets trigger it with the life.

Alright! what exactly is life? some people say it is "a characteristic state or mode of living" or "the experience of being alive" or may be "the period during which something is functional " and sometimes some people say it is "a motive for living".

So what essentially the life for me is to “live and let others live“. Some people will definitely get along with my motto towards life however it doesn't go well with the society because being an Indian sometimes you find yourself under lots of restrictions and same you put on others too. Why is it so? Aren’t we broad minded or we just care too much for our belongings and relations. sometimes we fight for things which is worthless and sometimes we don't care for millions and billions.

To counter on my views, Some of you will definitely comment on our generation since we are brought up to adapt western culture that's why we think in this way, however Indian society doesn't work like this and you have to abide by customs of society.

Lets focus little more on my weird thoughts, it varies according to maturity and age. If you would have asked the definition of life 5 years ago it would have been different but now it is totally different, for instance, this is first time when i left my country and visited USA, Before this my thinking was family and society matters always make things worse but now when i see American families and their family values normally my eyes are wide open for them. they have ethics and values for relations much more than us. Generally there are people who come to foreign country just to earn money and they stay here without their family for years. You may be surprised to hear that last year we had a client visit in our company, four executives came and just after two days i spoke to one of the executives and he said i m just missing my daughter i asked when did you meet her last? he replied day before yesterday. he said i can not live without my family and daughter even for one day but sometimes Indians are ready to leave their family just for the sake of money.

Before 5 years i was fascinated about life in a heaven like USA. i loved everything including money, green card, staying alone without family etc. but now if you ask me do u love USA? i would say my India is far better than here. I am not saying any particular country is good or other is bad. It is only because i am born and brought up there. now i could understand that family and friends should always be on top of the list so actual motto for me towards life is "live and only live for others"

7 Comments:

At 12:23 AM, Blogger Voice said...

welcome to blogging.
will add ur link in my blogspot.
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I agree that meaning of life changes with time... it should change.life is only like this.
after watching some american serials i too think their family "word" is more strong. i dont know about the bond... but they make huge cry saying "family first
family first.

good nice blog...keep blogging

 
At 12:26 AM, Blogger Sarry said...

@Thanks a lot voice for comments...btw u must be knowing about bond

 
At 12:33 AM, Blogger Sarry said...

@Crack

Thanks for your comments

 
At 12:08 PM, Blogger Aurora said...

congos for the 1st blog :)))))


regarding ur post u r rt time changes n our thinking too
and we realise the fact later whts the importance of life and family

aur apna desh toh apna hi hota hain:0))))

keep writing

 
At 12:51 PM, Blogger Sarry said...

@Rajkumari...thanks for ur precious time...aur han senorita se bol dena ki har blog pe comment karti rahe[:p]

 
At 8:01 AM, Blogger Sarry said...

@Esha

Thanks for ur precious time..

btw khatarnaak is same here too:p

this much comments is actually too much for me..

wateva u wanted to say..u expressed it well

 
At 8:07 AM, Blogger Sarry said...

@Anwesha

i guess u mixin both the posts;)

 

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